August 14, 2009

Shirking my Duty?

There are things that I just don't do anymore.

I don't bathe Therese.

And I don't brush, comb, or style her hair.

It's not that I'm neglecting my three-year-old. Really, I'm not. It's just that I have some serious competition from her two older sisters who want nothing more than to mother their younger sister, experiment with her curls (a novelty around here), and have a chance to play with someone in the tub.

Guess what? I'm not complaining.

They say motherhood gets easier once you have a few... I should say so. ;)

The Fights, the Fights

We have fights breaking out in our house left and right.


There seems to be a battle going on all the time.


The battles are fierce and all-consuming.


Perhaps it's just a phase...





On Exhibition

The Holy Family Homeschoolers Spring Exhibition is always a highlight of the year for the Leone family. It provides a chance for the kids to show off a few new, old, or refurbished skills; enjoy the talents of their friends; and have dinner with their gaggle of pals.

In this year's exhibition, the Leone performances were as follows:

Anna Marie sang a solo, "Part of My World" from the "Little Mermaid":


Kathleen and Anna Marie belted out the "Stepsisters' Lament" duet while Therese danced as a munchkin Cinderella onstage:


Kathleen played a piano piece from "Les Miserables":


William and Kathleen both participated in a skit that portrayed the early days of America:



And Andrew, sporting a big, red hand stamp from the library, recited a favorite poem, "Bird Talk":


Let me just say, the vocal Leones are not afraid of the stage or the podium.

The Munchkin Family

A peek at the munchkins seven:

July 13, 2009

Receiving Jesus

Our oldest son, William, made his First Communion at the beginning of the summer. What an exciting day for him and for all of us. William has made us proud in so many ways, and now here he is arriving at this big milestone, and receiving Jesus.

We are so proud of you, William, and we pray that you use the graces from the sacraments to grow in the love of God.




One Man's Junk is Another Kid's Treasure

The Easter Bunny left a "family gift" this year -- a hand-held GPS unit, perfect for family geocaching. Due to busy schedules and the usual spring insanity around here, it took us until June to break out the manual, figure out the unit, and look up some local geocaches. Using Geocaching.org, we have found a plethora of geocache locations near home.

A new weekend hobby, geocaching prompts our kids to look through their "treasure boxes" for junk treasure. This is great! What's not so great is the junk treasure that makes it's way into our home in it's place.

Nevertheless, the hunt is great fun. It's a good family diversion on a sunny Sunday, and the kids have learned some basic orienteering (albeit with high tech instruments) along the way.

Future family vacations will certainly include the GPS. Wisconsin treasure is one thing, but Georgia treasure is quite another.



Gymnastics Hiatus

Young Andrew is taking a hiatus from gymnastics as his finger heals post-surgery. This is certainly not his idea. And he has clearly verbalized his dismay at the forced hiatus. The gymnastics break is helping us with that crazy summer schedule, however... ;)



June 20, 2009

Andrew Undergoes Surgery!

A pantry door incident on Tuesday resulted in finger surgery and general anesthesia for five-year-old Andrew on Friday. It's sort of astounding the damage an interior door can do to a little finger.

In the aftermath of Andrew's finger getting closed in hinge-side of the pantry door, Joe and I looked at it and thought the top part (cuticle end) of his finger-nail had been ripped off. (Gruesome, I know.) The nurse on call that evening, based on our description of the injury, said to soak it in ice water and call the pediatrician in the morning. What we didn't realize through the mess is that it was actually the skin from the cuticle up toward the first knuckle that was raised (along with a bit of the nail in the area that would normally be under the cuticle). Let me just say, without getting too graphic, than when things are looking this bad, it's hard even for concerned parents to tell what's what.

Upon looking at Andrew's finger on Wednesday, the pediatrician advised us to just soak it in soapy water three times a day and re-bandage it each time, in order to prevent infection. He told us that Andrew would lose his whole nail, but that he had high hopes that it would grow back. Essentially, his advice was to do nothing other than basic cleaning and dressing changes.

Enter, on a white horse, Dr. Greg Latham (drum roll), my anesthesiologist brother at Johns Hopkins. My motherly intuition had told me something was not right. So I had emailed Greg a couple of gruesome close-up photos of Andrew's finger injury so we could get a second opinion. Upon reviewing the photos, Greg immediately contacted us and told us NOT to soak the finger, despite the pediatrician's recommendation. His concern was that if the nail matrix and/or nail bed had suffered damage, soaking would make matters much worse in terms of potential for future nail re-growth. It could also introduce infection. Meanwhile, he consulted with two surgeon colleagues, showing them the photos as well. When Greg got back to us, he reported that both surgeons felt that Andrew needed to be seen immediately by a specialist and would likely need surgery to give him any chance of ever growing a nail on that finger again someday.

On Thursday, two full days after the injury (time lapse due to our following the pediatrician's watch-and-wait approach), we had an appointment with a surgeon. It didn't take him more than two seconds of looking at the finger to tell us: Andrew definitely needs surgery. The nail matrix where nail growth originates had been seriously damaged and would not heal on its own, thus preventing any future nail growth. (Incidentally, they did x-rays and also found a small fracture.)

They were able to move their surgery schedule around a bit and get Andrew in on Friday morning (yesterday). To make a long story short, under general anesthesia they surgically removed what was left of Andrew's damaged nail, stitched the nail matrix to the nail bed in order to give a new nail the best chance of growing, cleaned up the nail bed, and replaced the old nail as a temporary cover (both to avoid infection and for cosmetic purposes). The expectation is that Andrew will soon start growing a new nail (underneath the old one), popping off the old nail as the new nail comes in about half-way (approximately three months from now).

The bottom line is that, had we followed the advice of our pediatrician (whom we've always trusted and respected), Andrew would have been left without a nail on his left ring-finger.

Interestingly, the hand surgeon who worked on Andrew told us that hand injuries are the most notoriously underestimated in terms of the need for specialized treatment by pediatricians and general practitioners.

The moral of the story: Trust your motherly intuition (and your brother!), and get a second opinion when you think it may be warranted.

As for Andrew, he'll be missing swimming, gymnastics, and contact sports (including light saber duels with his big brother) for a while. But all's well that ends well, and it looks like he'll heal very nicely.

And, yes, for those of you who are counting, that's two surgeries for the Leones in less than three months. (William had hernia surgery in the spring.) We made it more than twelve years with no Munchkin surgeries. I guess 2009 was our year for medical surprises. Let's hope the medical adventures are behind us for a while.


June 3, 2009

Podcasting for God

Anna Marie and friends are recording a weekly Catholic kids podcast which airs on our local Catholic radio station (Relevant Radio, 1240 am, for you locals).

You can see a photo of the gang and hear their podcasts here. (Anna Marie is in the front-middle with the brown shirt.)

May 23, 2009

Just Call Me Lola...

...Lola Granola.

We've gotten earthy and taken a step toward better health.

We're growing our own sprouts out here on the ol' Leone homestead. We decided that we'd kick up the health quotient a notch (so that we can be spared excessive guilt while eating greasy fries at McDonald's).

Our sprout-grower comes from this cool little business. And let me tell you how much fun we're having, growing a variety of healthy greens...


Leaner-Beaner Turns Eleven!

Our Kathleen, fondly nick-named Leener (or Beaner, or Leener-Beaner) turned a whopping eleven years old today. She quite-seriously informed us that she's now officially a tween. Indeed, Kathleen is currently part of a girls' band called The Tweeners. (They will be playing "Girls Just Want to Have Fun"—Kathleen on keyboard—before the Verona Hometown Days parade on June 14th.)

But I digress...

Kathleen invited friends, Frannie & Flavi, to play for the afternoon of her birthday. After squishing goo into molds to make bouncy balls with friends, the birthday girl set off with family to Laredo's for some Mexican birthday dinner. We came home to Kathleen's birthday dessert: homemade cherry cheesecake—her special request. I wasn't so sure the peanut butter ice cream was the perfect accompaniment to the cherry cheesecake, but who am I to argue with a birthday girl?

This was the year of the camera. Kathleen had been wanting a nice camera for a long time, and her wish was finally granted in the form of a very cool birthday gift.

If you don't find our eleven-year-old reading, she's probably sneaking up on you snapping photos.

Happy birthday, Leener!




May 22, 2009

Missing Grammy

Last week, on the way home from Mass, little Therese asked,

"Can we go see Grammy?"

A bittersweet moment to be sure.

Grammy passed away two months ago. And yet the old pattern of visiting Grammy on Sundays after Mass hasn't passed, least of all for sweet Therese.

Therese misses you, Grammy! We all do!

May 1, 2009

A Few Reasons I Love Homeschooling

Our kids have received some great opportunities that would likely not have been afforded them if they were in a traditional school setting. Our kids have real science lab with a top-notch teacher through our high school co-op. My understanding is that many of the best high schools no longer allow a real lab experience, due to concerns about injury and litigation. Our middle school kids have learned HTML and PHP computer programming through one of the moms in our homeschool group. Our kids have attended modesty and chivalry workshops and had the opportunity to become friends with priests.

One awesome experience has been an invitation to Anna Marie and some of her homeschooled friends--all middle schoolers--to join in the creation of a weekly podcast through Relevant Radio, our local Catholic radio station. The kids are three weeks into the process and did their first demo podcast on Wednesday. It is looking like the podcast is likely to get picked up for a Saturday morning slot. If that goes well, there is even a chance it could be carried live on a weekly basis. Now how many middle schoolers do you know who get to create a "by kids for kids" podcast that may become a live radio show?

Here are Anna Marie (in light blue sweater with white short sleeves) and friends in the Relevant Radio studio where they are getting to try their hand at everything from production, to audio, to DJ'ing... You've gotta love homeschooling!


April 30, 2009

Deck Expansion

We're in the process of expanding our deck. The old one served us well but was always a little tight for hosting company. We should have plenty of room now, so come on over!

The first photo shows the kids watching from the window, as the workmen get busy ripping apart part of the old deck. The second photo of Joe needs little explanation.


Will's Big Buck

Look what William found in the garden last week! That was one big buck, Willy-Boy!

Now William's intent on finding the owner... If you pop over to our house, you're likely to find William on a buck-hunt...

Anna Marie is in Business!

Anna Marie, our talented twelve-year-old daughter, has opened her own online store selling her hand-stitched creations.

Current inventory includes scapulars, aprons, and puppets (a puppet being displayed here proudly by younger sis, Therese)!

Caring for Uncle Larry

Now that Grammy has passed away, Uncle Larry is my last remaining Latham-side relative in state. I am his guardian, and Joe and I oversee his care. He lives in a wonderful group home with amazing support.

Larry and Karen, one of the managers in his residential care program, joined us for Easter dinner this year. Here are a couple Easter Sunday snapshots of Larry, Karen (in yellow) and the Leone gang, shortly after kite-flying and before dinner. The kids had such a ball with Larry, as always.


April 12, 2009

Easter with the Leones

As Therese put it today, "Jesus rosed from dead, and then the big, big, big bunny comes and give us coc-o-lat."

We had a wonderful Easter which began with Mass at Holy Redeemer and was followed by plenty of feasting. The kids arrived home to Easter baskets full to overflowing with "coc-o-lat," books, new shirts, and some fun art supplies. After the egg hunt, we had my Uncle Larry and his assistant, Karen, arrive to help us celebrate our Easter feast. It couldn't have been a better Easter, and the weather cooperated to boot.

The food-nut in me feels the need to post our Easter menu. Mmmmmm... It was a good one this year, and the Frozen Lemon Pavlova will definitely be making a return to the Leone Easter menu next year.

Easter Morning Breakfast: Swiss & Mushroom Quiche

Easter Dinner

Appetizers: Assorted Cheeses, Crackers, Olives & Nuts

Main Course:
Caesar Salad
Curried Deviled Eggs
Elizabeth’s Wheat Rolls
Joe’s Famous Leg of Lamb
Joe’s Famous Garlic-Rubbed New Potatoes
Marinated Mushrooms
Asparagus & Hollandaise Sauce

Desserts:
Frozen Lemon Pavlova
New York Cheesecake





March 21, 2009

Grammy's Funeral and a Family Reunion

My grandmother, passed away last Saturday after a long decline from Alzheimer's. Joe and I spent her last evening at her bedside, with the children, talking with her, holding her hand, loving her, and saying a rosary. I know she heard our words and our prayers, and I hope they were comforting to her and helped her to go to God in peace. She couldn't speak or squeeze my hand through the evening, but at the end she mustered up the strength to say something which Joe and I are both sure was "I love you." We love you too, Grammy. You are in our hearts and our prayers.

There is a silver lining in everything, and this funeral brought my six brothers and me together under one roof -- something that hasn't happened for about a decade. The photo below is my brothers and me, just minutes before we walked out the door for Grammy's funeral. Grammy was surely smiling down on this long-overdue family reunion in her honor.